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		<title>The Swedish Obsession with Licorice {Candy Series Part III}</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2012 16:56:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today I attended Lakritsfestivalen, a new annual show dedicated to the plant, licorice. Yes, licorice is on the verge of the next culinary explosion and it&#8217;s fitting that the country to lead the licorice extravaganza is Sweden. This is part III on my Swedish Candy Series. Be sure to check out parts I and II. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I attended <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2012/04/24/lakritsfestivalen-licorice-food-festival-from-panne-cotta-to-massage-oil/">Lakritsfestivalen</a>, a new annual show dedicated to the plant, licorice.  Yes, licorice is on the verge of the next culinary explosion and it&#8217;s fitting that the country to lead the licorice extravaganza is Sweden.</p>
<p>This is part III on my Swedish Candy Series.  Be sure to check out parts I and II.<br />
<a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2011/11/10/plockgodis-salty-sweet-chewy-swedish-candies-part-ii/">Plockgodis &#8211; Be an Expert at Picking from the Candy Bins</a><br />
<a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2011/11/07/an-introduction-to-swedish-candies-part-i/">An Introduction to Swedish Candy</a></p>
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<p>Swedes love licorice, as they love candy.  There is no group of people more obsessed by this root, say for the Finns, than the Swedes.  Sweet, salty, neutral are ingrained in Swedish candy culture.</p>
<p>Americans on the other hand, find licorice to be downright bizarre.  Even though the US produced two of the oldest licorice candies, Good &#038; Plenty and Crows, you will see few Americans indulging in a licorice root.  </p>
<p>And so I went on a quest for understanding why Swedes love licorice and where that love stems from.</p>
<p><em>A table full of candy from Beriksson&#8217;s Import at Lakritsfestivalen</em><br />
<a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/lakritsfestivalen-small.jpg" rel="lightbox[4036]" title="Berikssons lakrits på lakritsfestivalen i Stockholm / a table full of licorice candy"><img src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/lakritsfestivalen-small-560x373.jpg" alt="" title="Berikssons lakrits på lakritsfestivalen i Stockholm / a table full of licorice candy" width="560" height="373" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4047" /></a></p>
<p>The answers, from various licorice confectioners, writers, and a herbalist was surprising.</p>
<p>Annica Tryberg, coauthor of the book Lakrits, said, &#8220;Licorice falls into the Swedish palette: salty and sweet.  Many Swedish dishes like gravad lax and types of sill are salty.  Salty licorice brings out comforting, homely flavors that we love.&#8221;</p>
<p>Pelle Petterson who works with importing Icelandic licorice said, &#8220;Icelanders love strong, salty licorice, it matches our taste for food very well.  They were also the first to commercially produce chocolate with licorice, Freyja&#8217;s Draumur, which could be loved by everyone.&#8221;</p>
<p>Many people said licorice candy is popular because of the love for salty foods.  Sweden, and the rest of the Nordic region, had to rely on salted meats and fish to last through the long winters.  That love of salt did not dissipate when licorice was introduced at the apoteket as a medicinal product in the 1800s.</p>
<p>I think that since licorice gives an adrenaline boast, it can improve people&#8217;s spirits during the long winters and combat SAD (seasonal affected disorder).</p>
<p>In the 1800s the apotek {pharmacy} sold licorice roots as a medicinal product.  Lisan Sundgren, a herbalist and cofounder of Queen of Licorice, a natural beauty company using licorice, said, &#8220;To aid with digestion, psoriasis, dandruff, the dry cough, all common ailments in in Sweden, licorice was and still is a natural remedy.  It&#8217;s cheap and safe for the body.&#8221;  </p>
<p>Sweet licorice in the form of licorice paste could also be found at the apotek to satisfy a sweet craving.  Liquorice&#8217;s sweet tasting component is the glycyrrhizin acid, a compound 30-50 times stronger than sucrose (natural sugar).</p>
<p>In the 1930s Malmö Lakrits Compani (later Malaco) formed and began selling Sweden&#8217;s first licorice candy.  </p>
<p>While several licorice candies were on the market by that point, Swedish licorice differed in flavor from its Anglo counterparts.  Swedish lakrits was stronger and salter.  Part of it was the licorice paste (the extract) and part was the usage ammonium chloride to give licorice a strong, pungent flavor known as salmiak.</p>
<p>Today, licorice is enjoying rock star status as the next big thing in the culinary world.  While children may still eat Panda lakrits and licorice ropes, adults are experimenting with licorice powder, paste, and syrups.</p>
<p><em>Cupcake STHLM licorice cupcakes</em><br />
<a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/licorice-cupcakes.jpg" rel="lightbox[4036]" title="licorice-cupcakes"><img src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/licorice-cupcakes-560x602.jpg" alt="" title="licorice-cupcakes" width="560" height="602" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4049" /></a></p>
<p>Still, the best answer to why Swedes are in love with licorice could be answer by Martin at <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2012/03/29/cupcake-sthlm-cupcakes-youll-fall-in-love-with/">Cupcake STHLM.</a></p>
<p><em><strong>&#8220;Swedes and licorice have similar personalities: it takes time to become friends and break down a Swede&#8217;s barrier.  In the same way, it takes time to learn and love the taste of licorice.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>I agree.  Even though I may not allow the lakrits <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2011/11/10/plockgodis-salty-sweet-chewy-swedish-candies-part-ii/">plockgodis</a> to fraternize with the chocolate pieces, I feel in love with licorice today.  It took me thirty years. </p>
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		<title>Pea Soup &amp; Pancake Thursday &#8211; Being Truly Swedish</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 14:49:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sapphire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I first heard about pea soup Thursday {ärtsoppa på tordagan}, I reenacted the scene from The Exorcist where Linda Blair throws up pea soup and does the infamous 360 degree head turn. Pea soup gave me nightmares for years. soup + dessert = epic swedish win? And it still does, but a couple weeks [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I first heard about pea soup Thursday {ärtsoppa på tordagan}, I reenacted the scene from The Exorcist where Linda Blair throws up pea soup and does the infamous 360 degree head turn.</p>
<p>Pea soup gave me nightmares for years. </p>
<p><em>soup + dessert = epic swedish win?</em><br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6943792608/" title="Pea soup and pancakes by blacksapphire, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5444/6943792608_6dc055c423.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Pea soup and pancakes"></a></p>
<p>And it still does, but a couple weeks ago AB and I ventured to Blooms Café at Mariatorget and took the plunge for the traditional pea soup with pancakes lunch; a cornerstone of Swedish cuisine.  The girl at the register was convincing.</p>
<p><em>trying my soup&#8230;</em><br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6943792808/" title="Pea soup day! by blacksapphire, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5469/6943792808_6ecdf9f9fd.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Pea soup day!"></a></p>
<p><em>AB is suspicious of the greenness</em><br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6943792682/" title="Tasting pea soup by blacksapphire, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7130/6943792682_513a08b682.jpg" width="333" height="500" alt="Tasting pea soup"></a></p>
<p>The soup was delicious.  Blooms used fresh green peas, instead of the typical <a href="http://semiswede.com/2011/11/22/pea-soup-thursday-artsoppa/">yellow peas</a> for the Swedish version, and blended it with some cream and spice.  I think the soup could have had more cream but it was filling and perfect for a rainy day.  </p>
<p>We then ate our pancakes, I finished all mine since I left a little soup in the bowl; maximizing real estate in my tummy is paramount when dessert is involved.  They served traditional Swedish style pancakes, closely resembling French crêpes, with whipped cream and raspberry jam.</p>
<p>My husband, like any Swede who&#8217;s attended school, or even military training and prison, will know that on Thursdays pea soup is served as the meal of the dal.  Even today at his office cafetaria, they serve peasoup with pancakes.  </p>
<p>The tradition stems from needing a hearty meal before Friday fasting in the Catholic faith.  Sweden was Catholic for a short couple hundred years following the Danish influence of dismantling the old Gods in favor of one God. In the 1500s Sweden dropped Catholism and became a Protestant, Luthern, country.</p>
<p>Plus the Swedish King was evidently poisoned through his pea soup.  Forensic evidence done recently however has not been able confirm if he would have been able to die the residual arsenic found in the soup.  </p>
<p>The tradition of pea soup before fasting remains ingrained in the culture today.  From schools and prisons serving it, you can find the ready made yellow pea soup at the groceries in the funny sausage style tubes.  </p>
<p>I have not had yellow pea soup but I have had dalh, Indian lentil soup, from yellow split peas.  Delicious because of the garam masala, onions, and ginger.  The Swedish version I hear is not as exciting.</p>
<p>Instead, I recommend the fresh green pea soup for your Thursday Swedish meal.  It is like spring with a dash of cream.  If you want the yellow pea soup, perhaps go Indian style and be sacrilegious. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6943792944/" title="Pannkaka by blacksapphire, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5329/6943792944_93d3c4294b.jpg" width="500" height="333" alt="Pannkaka"></a></p>
<p>The best reward of finishing pea soup means enjoy pancakes with jam and grädde.  Mumms! </p>
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		<title>What is a Swede?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2012 08:04:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sapphire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Technically, a Swede is a rutabaga. Seriously, it is. Wikipedia says so.   It has to be true! Actually, it is true&#8230;the kålrot is called a swede in the commonwealth countries. If you want to know what a Swede, the person is, well, I found an interesting blog post from an old blog called Living [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Technically, a Swede is a rutabaga.</p>
<p>Seriously, it is.</p>
<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rutabaga">Wikipedia</a> says so.   It has to be true! Actually, it is true&#8230;the kålrot is called a swede in the commonwealth countries.</p>
<p>If you want to know what a Swede, the person is, well, I found an interesting blog post from an old blog called <a href="http://mystayinsweden.blogspot.com/2008/08/what-or-who-is-swede.html">Living in Sweden</a> by Ngala.   The text of his post, &#8220;What or Who is a Swede,&#8221; was found in computer lab in Umeå.</p>
<p>&#8221;<br />
A Swede is tall, blond, blue-eyed, and wears a woolly hat in the winter.   By nature he is shy, reserved, serious, industrious, and finds it hard to laugh at himself.   He is also a creature of habit and every morning gets up at 5.30 to give himself enough time to read the morning newspaper before going to work.   Since work does not usually start until 8 o’clock, this can only imply that a Swede is also a slow reader.</p>
<p>Apart from himself, his chief interests are money, his job, his home, ice-hockey, and his family (in that order). He also loves animals – especially dogs – and spends hours cycling through the town dragging a huge and ferocious German Shepherd behind him on a leash.</p>
<p>A Swede is usually punctual, honest, reliable, clean, has his own teeth, and is law-abiding. Evidence of the latter is particularly noticeable at pedestrian crossings.    No matter what the weather is like, a Swede would rather get soaked to the skin than cross an empty street when a red light is showing.   Similarly, he always wears a seat belt, never drinks and drives, always has a television licence, usually hands in his tax-return on time, invariably has a plastic bag in his pocket when he walks his dog, and never has a bath after 10 o’clock.<br />
&#8221;<br />
{This article goes on quite a bit but as I&#8217;m not the copyright holder and have already gotten in trouble by my big-brother-eyeing-advertising network, I&#8217;ve taken down the text.  Make sure to visit <a href="http://mystayinsweden.blogspot.com/2008/08/what-or-who-is-swede.html">Living in Sweden</a> to read the rest of the article.}</p>
<p>What do you think?</p>
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		<title>Swedish Culture Win &#8211; Shoes Off Please</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 11:06:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sapphire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s this ongoing battle in many countries. The dispute can destroy dinner parties and make friendships awkward. Some people compare this battle to the War of the Roses, eternal until death do us part. It is called &#8211; The Battle of Wearing Shoes Indoors! I for one, do not allow shoes in the house. I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s this ongoing battle in many countries.  The dispute can destroy dinner parties and make friendships awkward.  Some people compare this battle to the War of the Roses, eternal until death do us part.</p>
<p>It is called &#8211; <strong>The Battle of Wearing Shoes Indoors!</strong></p>
<p>I for one, do not allow shoes in the house.  I never have.  I never will.</p>
<p><strong>Here&#8217;s why:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>I am Indian, and like all other Asians, our home is our sanctuary.   To not takes shoes off is a sign of disrespect to the owners of the house.</li>
<li>I am a Hindi and a Jain, and as such, our home is also a place of worship.   God doesn&#8217;t like people schleeping in with shoes and shit on them.</li>
<li>I live in Sweden and not wearing shoes indoors is the biggest Swedish cultural win ever.  Most of the year it rains or snows in Sweden.  Why on earth would you drag stone, snow, mud filled shoes into a home?  And Swedes pride themselves on keeping fastidiously clean homes (Americans, for all your cleaning supplies, the Swedes are better at keeping a home tidy).  Plus, Swedes find it rude to walk around in a home with shoes you wear for the outside world.</li>
<li>Shoes indoors are gross.  No matter how many times I hear the, &#8220;ohhh, but it can make people uncomfortable to take their shoes off.   What if they have smelly feet or bunions or holey socks?&#8221;  Seriously?  If someone gives me  that dumbass rhetorical question, my answer is &#8220;maybe you should see a doctor and buy a pair of socks without holes.&#8221;</li>
<li>I am lazy and do not want to wipe scuff marks or water marks from your shoes in my home.</li>
<li>Your home is your home.   You have the right to ask, request, and in standoffs, demand people to remove their shoes.   Just as a guest does not have the right to eat food not served to them or throw their coats on the floor or eat before the host (in a formal dinner), a guest can certainly take their shoes off.</li>
<li>Wearing shoes all the time is stifling for my feet.  Who wants their feet to be smushed all day long in a pair of sneakers or heels?</li>
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<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3454" title="shoes off please" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/IMG_2739square-560x558.jpg" alt="no shoes indoors please" width="560" height="558" /></p>
<p>When I grew up, half the homes I would visit would take their shoes off and half would not.   Even when I lived in New York and the temperature was -30C and blizzard conditions, I saw some friends keep their shoes on.</p>
<p>At my birthday parties, which occurred in December, my mom would always run around and ensure kids took those shoes off.  I&#8217;m glad she did; no wants to clean up snow blizzard crap on the carpet.  Plus, it was a to teach the kids, and adults, that we do ask for respect when you come into our home.</p>
<p>There were always some kids who would cry when they had to take their shoes off.  They probably turned into the same adults who &#8220;can never take their shoes off because I&#8217;ve been doing it for 15 years.&#8221;  Gross, don&#8217;t you want your feet to get some air?  No wonder athlete&#8217;s foot is a huge problem in the United States.</p>
<p>But after doing some reading, the shoes on indoors turns out to be Anglo-Saxon tradition.  Britain, northern Germany, the United States, the Netherlands, and some South American countries.</p>
<p>The <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1320258/Taking-shoes-entering-home--necessary-naff.html">Daily Mail</a> had a hilarious article about wearing shoes indoors.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Is asking guests to remove their shoes before they cross your ­threshold good housekeeping or horribly naff? After all, the suggestion is that your friends’ shoes are so grubby that they are bound to be treading something unspeakable over your carpets.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Insinuating that your friends shoes are &#8220;so grubby&#8221; is misleading; shoes ARE dirty.  What &#8220;unspeakables&#8221; would someone tread?  Dirt, leaves, mud, water, snow, stones, dog shit, cigarette butts, snus, gum.  No unspeakables here, shoes tread dirt.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;One poster wondered whether it was OK to ask guests to remove their footwear at the housewarming party she was hosting. ‘No,’ was the overwhelming response.<br />
‘I’m picturing a Barratt home, twigs in a vase covered in fairylights and that Ikea picture of pebbles,’ sniped one woman on the forum.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Remind me to never invite the nay-sayers into my home.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Podiatrist Kate Millns says: ‘Asking people to remove their shoes is giving your guests unnecessary stress, as most people like to keep their feet hidden. It’s more hygienic to make them keep their shoes on, especially if they are not wearing socks or tights.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>By far the most bizarre of all, how does keeping one shoes on be more hygienic than taking them off?  Honestly, if your feet smell a lot, you should be seeing a doctor, and possibly not wearing shoes every second of every day.</p>
<p><strong>What to do in a Nordic household:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Please do take your shoes off being being asked to do-so.   The whole &#8220;Opps, I&#8217;m American, I didn&#8217;t realize it&#8221; is a lame and disrespectful excuse to a homeowner.</li>
<li>If you are attending a dinner party and do want to wear a pair of heels, ask the host if it is okay to bring the heels in a bag.  Clean the soles with soap and water and wrap them up in a nice bag to take to the party.</li>
<li>I sometimes take a pair of my flat jutas to a party.  I have cold feet and these shoes are meant for indoors only.  They&#8217;re also very cute and stylish.</li>
<li>Some hosts will have a strict no shoes policy.  That is especially true with people who have soft wooden floors.  My friend had an inflytningsfest (housewarming party) and made the mistake of allowing people to wear clean heels in the house.  Only two of the thirty or so guests did.  And one of them left divits across a brand new floor.  We tracked her &#8220;footprints&#8221; from the living room to the entrance to the bathroom and around.  The cost to steam and fix the imprints will be 3000-6000SEK.</li>
<li>When in Sweden, embrace some new traditions.  This is an instance of a great tradition.</li>
<li>Buy a shoe rack and a chair to help make it easier for guests to arrange their shoes and sit comfortably when taking them off.</li>
<li>Last, think about how much money you can save when not needing to <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2011/01/20/shoe-shopping-in-sweden/">buy shoes in Sweden</a> for every new outfit!  I call that winning!</li>
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<p><img src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/shoeandjacketrack.jpg" alt="shoe and jacket rack" title="shoe and jacket rack" width="381" height="465" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3458" /></p>
<p>From the forum, <a href="http://imamother.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=1312729">Imamother.com</a>:<br />
<em>&#8220;Yes its YOUR home but wouldnt you want people to be comfortable in your home? Lets say they put on their worst pair of socks with holes in the front, not knowing that you had such a &#8220;policy&#8221;. Would you like to take the risk of embarrasing the visitor by them having to wear &#8220;holey socks&#8221; or putting them in the position of not wanting to take them off?&#8221;</em></p>
<p>If my friends had a pair of holey socks, it is not my problem.  It&#8217;s also NOT for me to make fun of them and make it an issue.</p>
<p><strong>One of these days, I will stitch a sign to say &#8220;Inga Skor.&#8221;  And if someone questions me, I will say &#8220;we&#8217;re Swedes, take off your damn shoes!&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>UPDATE: <a href="http://temporarystockholmer.blogspot.com/2012/01/to-swedes-taking-your-shoes-off-when.html">Temporary Stockholmer</a> found a doormat sold at <a href="http://www.home-sweet-home.se/product_info.php?products_id=639">Home Sweet Home</a>.</p>
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		<title>Random Swedish Things I Cannot Live Without</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 12:53:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sapphire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I&#8217;m amazed at how Swedish I have become. I love the wintertime and snowfall and the darkness doesn&#8217;t bother me that much. Laundry bookings prevent a run on the washing machines Saturday morning, and the despicable Systembolaget is clean and full of helpful information when buying wine. There are some Swedish things I cannot [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I&#8217;m amazed at how Swedish I have become.  I love the wintertime and snowfall and the darkness doesn&#8217;t bother me that much.  Laundry bookings prevent a run on the washing machines Saturday morning, and the despicable Systembolaget is clean and full of helpful information when buying wine.</p>
<p>There are some Swedish things I cannot live without.  Perhaps I have truly lost my mind.</p>
<p><strong>Kalle Anka önskar God Jul</strong><br />
<img src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/kalle-anka-onskar-god-jul.jpg" alt="kalle anka donald duck christmas" title="kalle-anka-onskar-god-jul" width="500" height="754" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3439" /><br />
Finally, a country that loves Donald Duck more than Mickey Mouse.  Plus, you have to be drinking glögg and eating pepparkakor.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Inga Skor</strong><br />
No shoes in the house.  Seriously, why would you wear shoes in the house?  After steeping on concrete, rain, asphalt, shit, used papers, grass, stones, Americans will go home happily and put those nasty shoes on the couch.  And you look at Europeans for double-dipping the salsa with disgust.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Fika</strong><br />
A special time, and it doesn&#8217;t matter what time, for coffee and sweets.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Allemansrätten</strong><br />
Known as &#8220;everyman&#8217;s right,&#8221; allemansrätten provides Swedes the ability to experience nature and the outdoors without restrictions.  The main covenant of allemansrätten is &#8220;do not disturb, do not destroy.&#8221;</p>
<p>This allows you to camp on public and private lands (not restricted lands) for up to two nights without permission.  When you leave, there should be no evidence that you stayed.</p>
<p>You also have the right to pick berries, mushrooms (not black truffles, they grow underground), and flowers for yourself.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a wonderful right that promotes being neighborly, respecting the outdoors, and learning about nature.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Semlor</strong><br />
A soft bread bun filled with soft almond paste and delicious whipped cream.  Who wouldn&#8217;t like it?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Matches</strong><br />
<img src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/solstickan.jpg" alt="swedish matches solsticken" title="solstickan" width="480" height="347" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3440" /><br />
Gustaf Erik Pasch used a non-toxic red phosphorus in 1844 compared to the existing yellow phosphorus used to light the match.  No idea why Solsticken&#8217;s baby logo looks just like the Water Babies&#8217; sunblock baby.</p>
<p>No wonder Swedes love candles!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>25 Days of Vacation</strong><br />
As a full time employee, 25 days is the minimum under Swedish law.  Swedish law also states you have the right to take 4 weeks off in July.  I never have, but I split 2-3 vacations throughout the year.</p>
<p>This makes me want to be a more productive employee &#8211; relaxed, refreshed, and happy to not fight for vacation days.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Systembolaget</strong><br />
I hate you, but I still need you.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Osthyvel</strong><br />
<img src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Ånäset_världens_största_osthyvel-560x426.jpg" alt="the world&#039;s largest cheese slicer" title="Ånäset_världens_största_osthyvel" width="560" height="426" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3441" /><br />
The most amazing thing since sliced bread, sliceable cheese!</p>
<p><em>photo by Rauenstein, Creative Commons Some Rights Reserved.</em></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Skatteverket DIY Taxes</strong><br />
Doing taxes has never been easier and in a way, more fun!  Skatteverket, the Swedish Tax Authority, sends you a massive yellow colored, 4-paged glued tax document with your earnings and taxes and then tells you if you need to pay or if you get taxes.</p>
<p>If you have deductibles, they&#8217;re so easy to fill out, you&#8217;ll beg the IRS to do the same.</p>
<p>Oh, and you can snail max, text message, phone call, or online submit your taxes.  Winning!</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Wafflar, Kanelbullar, Lussekatter</strong><br />
Basically all sweets are delicious in Sweden.  Even those super marzipan, sugary tartlets.  The exceptions to the rule are licorice ice cream and <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2012/04/22/the-swedish-obsession-with-licorice/">salty licorice</a>.  But then again, there are days I have licorice ice cream.</p>
<p>I am sure I will come up with more&#8230;</p>
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		<title>A Photo Guide to a Swedish Christmas</title>
		<link>http://lostinstockholm.com/2011/12/06/the-guide-to-a-swedish-christmas/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 15:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sapphire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If this is your first Christmas in Sweden or your quest to learn about Christmas around the world, you&#8217;ve come to the right spot. I put together a comprehensive guide to having a Christmas in Sweden and abroad. Even if you don&#8217;t have access to thousands of tomtar, you can still incorporate Swedish traditions into [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If this is your first Christmas in Sweden or your quest to learn about Christmas around the world, you&#8217;ve come to the right spot.</p>
<p>I put together a comprehensive guide to having a Christmas in Sweden and abroad.  Even if you don&#8217;t have access to thousands of tomtar, you can still incorporate Swedish traditions into your own traditions.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s so much food and decor to enjoy during the holidays, but it is all about family and giving back to the community.</p>
<h2><strong><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/11/20/its-christmastime-but-uhhh-what-swedish-christmas-decorations-to-put-up/">Swedish Christmas Decorations</a></strong></h2>
<p><a title="swedish christmas decoration by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6465649247/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7033/6465649247_1cc89cf521_z.jpg" alt="swedish christmas decoration" width="383" height="640" /></a><br />
If you are in Stockholm, then I highly suggest shopping at Stockholms <a href="http://www.stadsmissionen.se/">Stadsmission</a> to get secondhand Christmas ornaments.  You can see from the photo there is plenty of pretty decorations at a good cost, and doing the Earth a favor by recycling.</p>
<p><em>Julstjärnor &#8211; Christmas Stars</em><br />
<a title="starry night by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6337010035/"><img src="http://farm7.staticflickr.com/6237/6337010035_15fb1b8857.jpg" alt="starry night" width="500" height="500" /></a><br />
The stars represent the town of Bethlehem.</p>
<p><em>Julbocke &#8211; Christmas goat</em><br />
<a title="Julbocken - Gavle Goat by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/4117439593/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2520/4117439593_cab0950fdc.jpg" alt="Julbocken - Gavle Goat"></a><br />
The Christmas goat is said to check on families that Christmas decorations were done properly.  Some folklore tales say the Yule Goat scared the children and demanded gifts.</h2>
<p>In Nordic mythology, Thor rode on his chariot with two goats, Tanngrisnir and Tanngnjóstr.  In the Prose Edda, he kills the goats and provides his guests and the gods food.  With his hammer, Mjölnir, he resurrects the goats the next day; creating a cycle of sustenance and nourishment.</p>
<p><em>Lights</em><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3247" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/DSC_0965small-560x375.jpg" alt="christmas in sweden - lights" width="560" height="375" /></p>
<p><em>Ornaments</em><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3245" title="christmas ornaments bokeh" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/DSC_0898small-560x375.jpg" alt="christmas ornaments bokeh" width="560" height="375" /><br />
Of course you need ornaments for your tree!</p>
<p><br/><br />
<em>Candles</em><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3244" title="NordicLight_7arm_red_whitecandles" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/NordicLight_7arm_red_whitecandles-560x472.jpg" alt="svenska jul" width="560" height="472" /><br />
From Design House Stockholm and you can <a href="http://www.designhousestockholmusa.com/tabid/210/productid/162/default.aspx">buy them</a> in the US. It&#8217;s dark, it&#8217;s dark, it&#8217;s dark, candles are a must; any size, any style.</p>
<p><em>Julgran &#8211; Christmas Tree</em><br />
<a title="A Charlie Brown Christmas tree by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/5290190276/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm6.staticflickr.com/5081/5290190276_e47770f07b_z.jpg" alt="A Charlie Brown Christmas tree" width="426" height="640" /></a><br />
The Christmas tree is put up on the third Advent and stays up until Knutsdag (twentieth day yule) on January 13th.</p>
<p><br/><br />
<em>Kalendarljus &#8211; Calendar candle</em><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3252" title="adventkalendarljus" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/adventkalendarljus-560x490.jpg" alt="" width="560" height="490" /></p>
<p><em>Jultomte &#8211; Santa Claus</em><br />
<a title="Tomten - Swedish Santa by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/4117439077/"><img src="http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2494/4117439077_466acd219f.jpg" alt="Tomten - Swedish Santa" width="395" height="500" class="aligncenter" /></a><br />
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<p><em>Julgris &#8211; Christmas pig</em><br />
<a title="christmas pig decoration by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6465663089/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7171/6465663089_e745d0da79.jpg" alt="christmas pig decoration" width="500" height="299" /></a><br />
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<em>Reindeer </em><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3246" title="swedish reindeer lights" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/DSC_0892small.jpg" alt="swedish reindeer lights" width="560" height="837" /><br />
Who doesn&#8217;t love reindeer?!<br />
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<h2><strong><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/12/03/swedish-christmas-food-dishes/">Swedish Food</a></strong></h2>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3248" title="Christmas smörgåsbord" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/DSC_0834small-560x375.jpg" alt="Christmas smörgåsbord" width="560" height="375" /><br />
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<p><em>Julskinka</em><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3243" title="julskinka-med-senapsgriljering-5256" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/julskinka-med-senapsgriljering-5256.jpg" alt="" width="385" height="327" /><br />
A recipe from <a href="http://www.ica.se/Recept/julskinka-med-griljering-5256/">ICA</a>.<br />
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<em>Julsenap</em><br />
<a title="Julsenap - Christmas mustard by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6465662297/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7175/6465662297_e93d651040.jpg" alt="Julsenap - Christmas mustard" width="500" height="299" class="aligncenter"/></a><br />
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<p><em>Lussebullar</em><br />
<a title="lussebullar - saffron buns by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/3325778822/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3084/3325778822_3f48c527b1.jpg" alt="lussebullar - saffron buns" width="500" height="334" /></a><br />
Yummy saffron buns! Recipe to come soon!<br />
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<p><em>Glögg</em><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3242" title="blossaglogg" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/blossaglogg.jpg" alt="glögg - swedish mulled wine" width="450" height="336" /><br />
You can buy several different flavor from Systembolaget or make your own using wine, vodka or rum.<br />
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<p><em>Pepparkakor</em><br />
<a title="Annas Pepparkakor by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6465686767/"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7144/6465686767_c3faa0d97d.jpg" alt="Annas Pepparkakor" width="500" height="500" /></a><br />
I&#8217;ll be posting a recipe quite soon!<br />
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<p><em>Aquavit &#8211; Snaps</em></p>
<p><br/><br />
<em>Julmust</em><br />
<a title="Julmust - The definitive Swedish Christmas soda by blacksapphire, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/6465680521/"><img src="http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7166/6465680521_20499aca7f.jpg" alt="Julmust - The definitive Swedish Christmas soda" width="500" height="356" /></a><br />
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<h2>
<strong><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/11/23/swedish-christmas-holidays/">Swedish Christmas Holidays</a></strong></h2>
<p><em>Christmas Calendar<br />
<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3254" title="julkalenden" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/IMAG1193-560x335.jpg" alt="swedish christmas calendar" width="560" height="335" /><br />
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<p><em>Advent Candles</em><br />
One candle is lit each Sunday before Christmas.<br />
<img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3251" title="adventljus" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/adventljus.jpg" alt="" width="397" height="327" /><br />
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<strong>Christmas Eve </strong><br />
<em>Kalle Anka (Donald Duck &amp; Disney)</em></p>
<p>The Disney special has been on for more than 30 years.  It&#8217;s the same every year but it is truly a bizarre and fun Swedish Christmas obsession.</p>
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<em>Christmas Dinner </em><br />
<img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3249" title="smörgåsbord" src="http://lostinstockholm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/DSC_0959small-560x366.jpg" alt="smörgåsbord" width="560" height="366" /><br />
The Swedish Christmas dinner is served on Christmas eve after watching Kalle Anka and before opening Christmas presents.   The smörgåsboard is several courses, starting with cold meats and fishes, hot food, cheeses, and dessert.  And nothing would be complete without toasting with snaps.</p>
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		<title>Moving to Sweden: Making Friends</title>
		<link>http://lostinstockholm.com/2011/06/29/moving-to-sweden-making-friends-in-a-new-city/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 13:38:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sapphire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Moving to a new country and then making new friends is hard. Moving to Sweden and making friends is like waiting for hell to freeze over. A friend over on Twitter ask me to write a bit about what&#8217;s it like to make new friends here. First, the collection of articles on living in Sweden. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Moving to a new country and then making new friends is hard.  Moving to Sweden and making friends is like waiting for hell to freeze over.  A friend over on Twitter ask me to write a bit about what&#8217;s it like to make new friends here.</p>
<p>First, the collection of articles on living in Sweden.</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/11/15/the-misery-of-finding-an-apartment-in-stockholm/">The Misery of Finding an Apartment in Stockholm</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/11/10/being-a-foreign-housewife/">Being a Foreign Housewife</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/08/19/living-in-sweden-job-interview-tips/">Job Interview Tips in Sweden</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/08/08/apartment-hunting-in-stockholm/">Apartment Hunting in Stockholm: Part 42</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/10/09/living-in-sweden-finding-a-job-in-sweden/">Finding a Job in Sweden</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/jobs-in-sweden/">Job Posting in Sweden</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/10/09/living-in-sweden-cv-and-the-hopeful-job-interview/">Swedish CVs and Job Interviews</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/11/05/living-in-sweden-finding-an-apartment/">Finding an Apartment</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/11/12/living-in-sweden-english-bookstores/">English Bookstores</a></li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/12/07/learn-swedish-language-resources/">Learn Swedish: Don’t Sätt på en Skygg Lapp</a></li>
</ul>
<p><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/11/10/being-a-foreign-housewife/"></a></p>
<p>For me, I was lucky; I knew people who knew people.  Still, it took a lot of random conversations with a lot of people to determine if I wanted to be friends with them.</p>
<p>Swedes for one, can take awhile to become friendly and become friends.  Making friends with Swedes who have lived in the same city all their life is the hardest, probably the worst thing you can do.  These Swedes have always had the same pillar of friends from grade school to gymnasium to university, plus or minus a few friends.  As a result, they are stable, don&#8217;t need new friends, and don&#8217;t need more things to do.   Skip making friends with these Swedes until you are settled down and comfortable with life.</p>
<p>I made the easiest friends with the Swedes who have lived abroad.  They have more of open mind and can relate to nomads.  You can meet these Swedes at pub quiz nights, international companies, meetup clubs, and even blogs (hi Hairy Swede!).</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s okay if you don&#8217;t have many friends; your possy in Sweden maybe smaller than what you had at home.  But make friends with people you enjoy being with.</p>
<p>Here are some places, online and offline to meet more people in Sweden, not just Stockholm.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.meetup.com/stockholmexpat/">Meetup.com </a></strong>- Meetup has meeting all over the world.  Find local meetings in the city you live.  Stockholm and Gothenburg has regular meetings and outings and the people there are really friendly.</p>
<p><strong>Couchsurfing</strong> &#8211; Surf on someone&#8217;s couch for the night and make a new friend.  Great if you&#8217;re about to move to the city.  You can also go to the couchsurfing meetups to meet people who host surfers or just want to hang out.</p>
<p><strong>Working or attending university</strong> &#8211; Try not to work at an über Swedish company.  You know which companies those; they&#8217;re large, impersonal, and no one cares about anyone else.  University is great to meet other foreigners but difficult to dig up the Swedes.  Work hard at initiating conversations with them.</p>
<p><strong>Embassy or native culture events</strong> &#8211; If you are in Stockholm or Göteborg, you are lucky.  There are always embassy/consulate events going on for citizens to feel back at home.  In some of the smaller cities there maybe joint groups not run by the embassy but maybe a business or cultural group.</p>
<p><strong>Yoga Lessons</strong> &#8211; A long shot but at least you get in shape and get out of the house.</p>
<p><strong>Tech groups</strong> &#8211; There are tons of them here!  Check out <a href="http://geekgirlmeetup.com/">Geek Girls</a>, <a href="http://www.meetup.com/EPiServer-Stockholm/">Episerver</a>, <a href="http://robertnyman.com/geekmeet/">Robert Nyman&#8217;s Geek Meet</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Belly, Bollywood, African dancing</strong> &#8211; It&#8217;s unusual but again at worst case you get out of house and do something fun!  Also check out <a href="http://www.indiskdansstudio.se/Bollywood%20Dans.aspx">Indian Dance Studio</a> and <a href="http://www.dansdojon.nu/index.html">Dans Dojon</a> and <a href="http://www.layali.se/">Layali Dance Studio</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Swedish classes</strong> &#8211; A total hit or miss.  You will meet foreigners, not Swedes so this should not be a priority on the list of making Swedish friends.</p>
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		<title>The Love Hate Relationship With Stockholm</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 May 2011 21:49:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sapphire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve come to the point in life where half the time I love Stockholm and half the time I hate Stockholm. Okay, maybe there are days when I hate Stockholm more than I love. But hey, no one said I was a lover not a hater. After nearly three years here, I&#8217;m finally making a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve come to the point in life where half the time I love Stockholm and half the time I hate Stockholm.  Okay, maybe there are days when I hate Stockholm more than I love.  But hey, no one said I was a lover not a hater.</p>
<p>After nearly three years here, I&#8217;m finally making a pros and cons list of living in Stockholm.  As I was naive when I first moved here that Stockholmers are Swedish (Stockholmers are Stockholmers and no one wants to touch them with a 10 foot poll); I can now tell the difference between a Stockholmer and a Swede.</p>
<p>Anyway, at least I think I know why I love Stockholm and why it drives me to bits.</p>
<p>Here it is, let the loving and bashing begin:</p>
<p><strong>Pros of Living in Stockholm</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>It&#8217;s the capital of Sweden AND Scandinavia.  Boo-yah!  We kicked your ass Oslo and Copenhagen.</li>
<li>Walking to work is awesome.  No longer do I have an one hour commute by car but rather an 18 minute walk to work.</li>
<li>Springtime in Stockholm is beautiful.  Spring time is beautiful everywhere, but still a win for Stockholm.</li>
<li>I live on an island!  That is so cool telling my friends that I live on an island in Sweden!!! Nevermind that 500,000 other people live on the island.</li>
<li>There are 14 islands that makeup Stockholm.  That&#8217;s a lot of islands.</li>
<li>Being able to walk five minutes to the grocery store.</li>
<li>Finding cute nooks and crannies of the city where you can buy great cheeses, Italian specialities, or shoes.</li>
<li>Meeting friends anywhere in the city afterwork.  I love that after owning a car for 11 years, I can walk or take the train to meet friends.  And nothing&#8217;s far; Stockholm is so cute and small you can walk the city in an hour or so.  Yipee!</li>
<li>Hanging out on the water during the summertime.  I&#8217;ve never lived near the water so being able to walk to the water and hang out a park nearby is awesome.  I just wish people wouldn&#8217;t be such dipshits and <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/06/09/clean-up-stockholm-cigarette-butts-trash-the-city/">dump trash into the waterways</a> and parks.</li>
<li>Watching the city empty out during the summertime.  So nice to see less cars, less people, more peace.</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Cons of Living in Stockholm</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Beer is expensive.  Martinis are expensive.  And for some unknown reason, Josefine&#8217;s on Djurgården charges 94:- for the world&#8217;s shittest glass of rosé wine (jacob&#8217;s creek).</li>
<li>Drivers suck.  I like drivers from Gothenburg; they don&#8217;t seem to be in a rush to run over people.   Drivers in Stockholm look like they&#8217;re on crack for the Indy 500 gone Fast and the Furious.</li>
<li>Rude people.  I&#8217;m small.  I&#8217;m smaller than Swedish kids who are 12 years old.  That means, I get the honor of having doors slamming my face, elbows whacking my head, and the occasional bag hitting me from the side.  You know, you could say &#8220;excuse me&#8221; and it wouldn&#8217;t kill you.</li>
<li>For being the largest city in the Nordic region, there are few places that are cheap and delicious to eat at.  Please, no thai or kebab.</li>
<li>Stockholmers believe they&#8217;re awesome.  I understand the complex.  Stockholm barely makes it in the top 100 capitals in terms of population.  Most people think it&#8217;s in Switzerland.   And people in DC, Paris, Toyko, Delhi, don&#8217;t really care about Stockholm as a city or a capital.  The best Stockholm can do then? Pick on its little sister Gothenburg.</li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/07/12/swedish-fashion-2010-the-horror-continues/">Stockholm fashion</a> is poser.  See above for the runt complex.</li>
<li>Stureplan is not cool.  Posers.  We&#8217;re so impressed that five ferraris and three lambourginis are registered in Sweden.  We&#8217;re even more impressed that you can park them on the sidewalk and throw champagne down the drains (vaska).  We love that somehow everyone goes to New York to shop and in desperate times, to Paris and London.</li>
<li>Dating your coworkers is weird.  Dating your boss is weirder.  I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s a Stockholm thing or a Swedish thing, but dating managers and having affairs at the office is not conducive to a good office environment.</li>
<li>Getting shit-faced at the office party and puking on a coworker is rude.  Some companies would have an intervention for alcohol problems.</li>
<li>It&#8217;s <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/11/15/the-misery-of-finding-an-apartment-in-stockholm/">miserable to find an apartment</a> in the city and in any reasonable suburb.</li>
</ul>
<p>I&#8217;ll stop for now and try to be a lover of Stockholm with the summer coming around.</p>
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		<title>More Things to Hate about Sweden</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Jan 2011 08:51:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sapphire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know I ruffled feathers with my 10 things I hate about Sweden. People thought I was/am a real a&#8217;hole. To prove them wrong, I made a list about why I love Sweden. But let&#8217;s get real. The I love Sweden post received 15 comments. The I hate Sweden post received 255 comments. The people [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know I ruffled feathers with my <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/15/10-things-i-hate-about-sweden/">10 things I hate about Sweden</a>.  People thought I was/am a real a&#8217;hole.  To prove them wrong, I made a list about why I love Sweden.</p>
<p>But let&#8217;s get real.  The <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/12/15/42-reasons-why-sweden-is-the-best-country/">I love Sweden post</a> received 15 comments.  The I hate Sweden post received 255 comments.  The people who told me to &#8220;get the F out of Sweden&#8221; were no where to be found when I made positive comments about their country.  Do they love Sweden then if all they can do is hate me for pointing out the poorer aspects of the nation?</p>
<p>This compiled list is not just me.  I asked several expats what they hate about Sweden and these are the top answers.</p>
<p>Let the games begins:</p>
<p><strong>Sweden is&#8230;</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Dark six months of the year</li>
<li>Cold</li>
<li>snowy; goddamn you <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/11/09/its-snowing-yet-again/">snow</a>!</li>
<li>Seriously f&#8217;ing cold</li>
<li>full of feminists</li>
<li>IKEAland</li>
<li>Grey</li>
<li>Black</li>
<li>full of hot <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/03/20/the-a-to-z-guide-on-dating-swedish-men/">swedish men</a> and <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/">swedish women</a> (okay big plus)</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>I hate how&#8230;</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Tvattstuga bookings ranges from psycho 8AM-5PM and 5PM-midnight or from 7AM-9AM.  And if you really want to start a fight in Sweden, steal someone&#8217;s clothes and hold it ransom.
</li>
<li>You have to pay 10kr for a bathroom that has sticky toilet paper on the floor.  Ummm&#8230;I like non pissy bathrooms. </li>
<li>People hit you in the head with bags on the metro and don&#8217;t apologize</li>
<li>Some people block the entrance walking on/off the train.</li>
<li>Without immigrants cleaning the streets, the city would be a dump.</li>
<li>No one holds doors open.</li>
<li>Those damn heaters in doorways of malls (think Gallerian) are completely uncool for the &#8220;enviromental capital of europe.&#8221;</li>
<li>XL is more like M in clothing.</li>
<li>People snus and throw the used packet on the streets; same with <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/06/09/clean-up-stockholm-cigarette-butts-trash-the-city/">cigarette butt litter</a>.</li>
<li>With gym etiquette, no one has sweat towels!</li>
<li>People wear flip flops or walk barefoot in the gym &#8211; I&#8217;d love to drop a 10kg dumbbell on an exposed toe</li>
<li>Drivers think you&#8217;re a pylon when crossing the street.</li>
<li>Bus drivers think they are in the indy or rally!</li>
<li>The<a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/11/15/the-misery-of-finding-an-apartment-in-stockholm/"> black market rental</a> sucks.</li>
<li>The housing market sucks.</li>
<li>Buying gorgeous <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2011/01/20/shoe-shopping-in-sweden/">shoes in Stockholm</a> is impossible</li>
<li>Cyclists are training for the Tour de France in the summer, ergo you get run down like obstacle flags.</li>
<li>Fitted bedsheets don&#8217;t exist.</li>
<li>Bedsheets other than white don&#8217;t exist.</li>
<li>Foreigners are suffering from Stockholm syndrome.</li>
<li>Designer crap <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/07/12/swedish-fashion-2010-the-horror-continues/">Swedish fashion</a> falls apart after 3 months of use.</li>
<li>Shopping is limited.  I want soy candles and toe socks, where the hell can I find them!</li>
<li>No one smiles.</li>
<li>Banks close at 15hr on most days.</li>
<li>People whine about the weather. I already know the weather sucks, thanks for pointing out the obvious.</li>
<li>People don&#8217;t make small talk.</li>
<li>Stores close at 18hr (19hr if you&#8217;re lucky).</li>
<li>Swedish banks change rules as often as people screaming skål at the company julbord dinner party</li>
<li>Swedish banks don&#8217;t let you see details of transactions&#8230;my last paycheck came from a company/person/object called &#8220;0&#8243;</li>
<li><a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/11/10/being-a-foreign-housewife/">Housewives</a> are condescended upon by Swedes.</li>
<li>The queue system only works when there is a queue number.  Otherwise people fail to understand forming a line.</li>
<li>Queues during Christmastime fail miserably.</li>
<li>If Disneyworld is the best place on earth, then System Bolaget must be the antichrist.</li>
<li>Lagom everything is at work.  Why can&#8217;t people work to do their best?</li>
<li>Everything is so expensive.</li>
<li>Customer service doesn&#8217;t exist.</li>
<li>Wedding gift registries do not exist.</li>
<li>Shopping online is still in the stone age.</li>
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		<title>42 Reasons Why Sweden is the Best Country</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Dec 2010 12:18:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sapphire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve complained about Sweden, mainly what irks me in an amusing way. Except for the crappy bedsheets, why can&#8217;t you find soft, snuggly, egyptian cotton fitted sheets?? Okay, I&#8217;ll stop. I love Sweden and for many opportunities it&#8217;s given me even though I don&#8217;t discuss it much on the blog. To be honest, it&#8217;s not [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/15/10-things-i-hate-about-sweden/">complained about Sweden</a>, mainly what irks me in an amusing way.  Except for the crappy bedsheets, why can&#8217;t you find soft, snuggly, egyptian cotton fitted sheets??  Okay, I&#8217;ll stop.  I love Sweden and for many opportunities it&#8217;s given me even though I don&#8217;t discuss it much on the blog.  To be honest, it&#8217;s not entertaining to tell everyone how much you love a place and how wonderful life is; how mushy is that?<br />
<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/4660022246/" title="Slussen stockholm by blacksapphire, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4057/4660022246_fdaa819a65.jpg" width="500" height="325" alt="Slussen stockholm" /></a></p>
<p>For those of you who think I&#8217;m a self centered Sweden-hater, try reading more into the posts.  I point out what I see everyday.  It&#8217;s my world through my filter.  But it is possible to love Sweden.  It&#8217;s special; still full of Nordic traditions and sweet naiveness.</p>
<p><strong>And 42 reasons why you should love Sweden:</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>Parental leave (mammaledgit/pappaledgit) is 15 months&#8230;paid!</li>
<li>Kids get free daycare (dagis)</li>
<li>Summertime means endless sun</li>
<li>The Swedish men are gorgeous</li>
<li>Swedish women are hot, blond, and beautiful</li>
<li>The Vikings</li>
<li>Princess Yummyboobs, I mean Princess Madeleine</li>
<li>Socialized healthcare</li>
<li>You can stay in a hotel made from ice (or get a drink at the Absolute Ice Bar)</li>
<li>Sweden is cheaper than Norway</li>
<li>The Nobel Prize</li>
<li>IKEA &#8211; the land of prefab homes, people, and cars</li>
<li>Fika and cakes</li>
<li>The darkness in the winter is kinda cool</li>
<li>Dynamite &#8211; we can blow things up</li>
<li>Summer houses, <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/07/22/swedish-summer-houses-and-jellyfishes/">summer houses</a>, summer houses</li>
<li>The days of the week come from <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/07/03/old-norse-mythology-myths-and-gods/">Norse gods</a></li>
<li>Swedish men even give the <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2008/03/31/the-swedish-male-look/">cute male look</a></li>
<li>There is a day for candy &#8211; <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/04/15/lordags-godis-the-swedish-candy-obsession/">lordagsgödis</a></li>
<li>There are reindeers in the north</li>
<li>Swedish meatballs</li>
<li>Princess cake &#8211; delicious cream, cake and marzipan</li>
<li>Lady police officiers are hot</li>
<li>The islands are gorgeous</li>
<li>The <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/07/14/swedish-chef-goes-bork-bork-bork/">Swedish Chef</a></li>
<li>Greta Garbo</li>
<li>Land of the Midnight Sun</li>
<li>There&#8217;s a day dedicated to <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/10/04/kanelbulle-dag-cinnamon-roll-day/">cinnamon rolls</a> &#8211; mummms!</li>
<li>#1 place in the world for women</li>
<li>Girls can wear candles in their hair</li>
<li>Dating in Sweden is an adventure</li>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/blacksapphire/4379367037/" title="Stockholm in the Winter by blacksapphire, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4042/4379367037_92e0919d58.jpg" width="500" height="335" alt="Stockholm in the Winter" /></a></p>
<li>Snow during the wintertime is magical</li>
<li>Sweden is cooler than Norway</li>
<li>Another day is dedicated to <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/03/25/vaffledagen-waffle-day-in-sweden/">waffles</a>!</li>
<li>At midsommar, you can dance around a <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2010/06/25/little-midsommar-frogs/">maypole and be frogs</a></li>
<li>Five weeks of vacation</li>
<li>You can go <a href="http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/04/15/to-go-dutch-or-to-not-go-dutch-that-is-the-question/">dutch on dates</a></li>
<li>It&#8217;s easy and beautiful to walk around Stockholm</li>
<li>There are lots of Christmas holidays and celebrations</li>
<li>People are nice (they maybe hard to talk to but they are nice)</li>
<li>Swedes have an adorable accent</li>
<li>The wonderful man I married is Swedish</li>
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