Comments on: 10 Commandments of being a Pick Up Artist

By: Tony D

Tony D — Tue, 06 Mar 2012 01:17:33 +0000

Not a bad list. I think it’s as simple, and complicated as you make it out to be.

By: Dano

Dano — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 09:15:55 +0000

HMM..There’s a couple of posts here saying “what about tips for the women?” Ok,i’ll help from a man’s point of view.
This is the “shallow mans” version,meaning it’s based on girls who are averagely pretty and upwards who have 2 eyes a full set of teeth,2(nice)tits,2 (nice)legs and a cute ass!
I’ll base it on the tips above too.

1/ BE GORGEOUS!..rejection will never be a problem!

2/ DON’T expect to get every guy – Some are gay,totally in love already,or terrified of you!

3/ BE CONFIDENT – Guys adore confident women.Chat up lines like “hey,fancy a shag?” or “I have a house,some nice wine and an industrial size bottle of babyoil..wanna shag?” tend to work well on most men and they’ll appreciate you for the “green light”!

4/ HAVE A PERSONALITY – We dealt with this in answer 1.

5/ DON’T BE DRUNK – This is true.There’s nothing worse than a hottie who’s drunk.The result will be the same,you’ll get laid,but chances are it’ll be by him,his friends and a passing busload of football supporters,and you’ll end up on youtube with 18 million hits!

6/ HAVE A GOOD WINGMAN – Always a good idea.If she’s as hot as you are then the option of bringing her into play for a threesome if the guy is stubborn works twice as good! Also good if you’ve terrified him and he feels safer bringing a friend!

7/ TRY TRY TRY AGAIN – 9 times out of 10 you’ll never have to go past the first “try”! But if he’s stood with his girlfriend/wife then the other 2 may have to come into effect.
Be confident! She wants you too! Life’s an adventure! Fondle her while chatting him up and he’s yours!

8/ TRAVEL – If you feel the urge i guess.Men are shallow bastards everywhere,so why bother?

9/ POOR POSTURE WILL KILL YOU – Debateable where women are concerned.Poor posture can enhance a guys view of your cleavage,legs and or ass.Never a bad thing!

10/ PICK UP LINES SHOULD NOT BE LAME – Never use those tired lines like “Hi,i have degrees in home economics,history and political science..wanna shag?” They make guys think of the after sex conversation,and you’ll lose them!
Stick with the simple “Ok..you,you,you anddddd ummmmm..you…my place NOW!Lets go!” and you can’t go wrong!

So there ya go,the hotties guide to picking up men,hope it helps!
Remember – You’re hot! Guys want you,girls want you,everyone wants you! Be confident,never look or seem aloof and unaproachable.Always dress to kill,and it’s impossible to go wrong! Lycka till ladies! :)

(If you’re looking for a steady boyfriend,true love,or don’t want your number on the wall of every public toilet in Sweden?…then ignore this!)

By: Nick

Nick — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 19:47:56 +0000

Great article!
I like the ten commandments and how you describe them. Cerainly a great place for anyone to start from. :)

By: ace

ace — Sat, 27 Feb 2010 06:43:39 +0000

How about some tips for the ladies? Us guys are held to pretty high standards (From this article alone: Accept Rejection, Keep Trying, be Confident, Witty and Well Traveled etc etc) but obviously, it takes two to make a couple.

By: Puntino

Puntino — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 15:20:35 +0000

I’m not a womaniser or heartbreaker, but two general consideration are applicable:
Firstly, believe in yourself, in your physical aspect, your hobbies (it does not mean that you will be able to pick up the most beautiful girl of the world)
Secondly, be kind and at the first approach bear in mind that you want to know another person, possibly a friend that might turn into your girls.

c u

By: Joyce

Joyce — Sat, 20 Feb 2010 13:38:28 +0000

I found The Game pretty fascinating too, and it must have been so interesting to see their training night out! I think anything taken to extremes is a bad thing, but I definitely agree that a lot of nice guys could use the pointers in the book.

By: Sapphire

Sapphire — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 14:19:15 +0000

Riccardo – Most definitely location matters, but I believe that women even in Sweden are open to men if their approach is right. Like Tony pointed out, women want men with intelligence and status and can be confident in their approach.

If a man approached me on the street and acted creepy or uncertain of himself, I wouldn’t care about him. But if the man had manners and brains, then I would stop to listen to him.

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By: Tony

Tony — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 02:54:32 +0000

I think these are right. Women want men with intelligence and status. You can signal these in different ways, but the best are probably clever words, confidence, and good friends. And because everyone is different, you probably will not find a perfect match on the first, second, or even hundredth try. So just keep try. The more you try, the better you get each time. In some ways, men are making themselves less attractive to potential future partners by staying with one girl. Personally I’ve learned the most from my mistakes.

To Riccardo’s point, I think choosing a good location is very important as well. Women have to be careful when they choose a man, because before birth control made this less important, they risked getting pregnant through casual sex. So women want commitment. And they need information to make this judgment, so having something in common and sharing time with a potential partner increasing a man’s chances. So friends of friends, parties, shared vacation activities, etc. makes you a safer bet. This is true here in America as much as it is in Europe. True, America is more casual, but MOST men will still need to carefully select a time and location wherever they find the girl.

By: Riccardo

Riccardo — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 15:36:53 +0000

I think these are rules more applicable in U.S. rather than in Europe. People here is scared about people you do not know very well the backround.

Picking up girls simply walking on the street or entering into a bar is normal only in the movies.

Much better in my opinion at least in Italy:

1) The University/ school
2) Workplace
3) wedding parties
4) Friends invitation
5) Ski clubs (unbelievable)
6) Dance club ( not discos but places where you dance Tango, waltz.. etc)
7) Trains
8) Villages for summer holidays
9) Private beaches
10) ….. ?

You’ll be surprised how people change their behaviour when meet in these places

I don’t believe is different in the rest of Europe. It would be nice to hear other comments.

Ciao