When Jeremy Soul first invited me to attend his day game pick up artist boot camp for Love Systems, I was really excited. And then I felt really weird going to stalk a group a guys on learning how to pick up girls and then head out in the “field” to try out their newly learned skills.
Last week for eight hours I learned what men learned about women. Before you give me the smack down that dating systems are stupid and full of douche bags, the aim is what we girls always wanted: a nice guy that can talk to girls.
The guys I met were your average Joes, average Svens you could say. They were good looking guys, all with jobs and some sort of life aspirations but missing a girl in their lives. The men attending are one of two types: 1. newly single and now thrown back to the wolverines; 2. men of good status looking to meet women.
As I found out and well suspected, men have tried for eons to successfully woe women. It is in our DNA; humans are meant to procreate and those that don’t, clean up the gene pool a bit more and allow for stronger, smarter, more beautiful, more tactful creatures to evolve to the next generation. That’s what so amazing about dating; at the end of the day there’s only one real goal: survival. On one hand, being humans, we have slapped Darwin in the face and defied death, diseases, and now mating. Okay, I’m being extremely harsh.
On the other hand, we are giving men who lack a certain je ne sais quoi to effectively compete on the mad race to find a suitable mate. If we look at birds, it would be like teaching male birds how to build a better nest and increase the level and standards of competition. That’s what Love Systems does; give men tools to bring the playing field to a move equitable level for men of different status levels. And you know what? It’s a good thing. Because somehow the human species is caught up in some perverse game of the most obnoxious men taking women and leaving the rest of the male species to duke it out at lower levels. Well, fuck that. There are plenty of men who without some sort of dating help would be at a loss, yet on a genetic level, are perfect mates.
Jeremy who teaches day game workshops turns concept of survival of the fittest on its head by bringing in the group of men that were excluded from the Darwin’s game because they couldn’t get past first base with women; and therefore would not survive to the next generation. That’s profound. Let’s teach good men to meet women. And ladies, the female species is seeking exactly this: quality men of good social standing to produce offspring for the next generation.
But before I give you the whole lowdown on pick up artists as an interloper, what do you think men need to to do to meet women?
And girls, what are your worst stories of men hitting you, at the bar, in the club, on the street, whatever?