Comments on: Umm, you wanna be a Pick Up Artist?

By: Delbert Becera

Delbert Becera — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 17:04:00 +0000

Greetings from Sweden. This is a cool blog. I’m wondering if you have any advice about staying out of the friend zone with women? Honestly I’m sick of women telling me they just want to be friends. Maybe I’m being too nice?

By: 10 Commandments of being a Pick Up Artist and Meeting Women

10 Commandments of being a Pick Up Artist and Meeting Women — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 09:46:55 +0000

[...] I attended under the dating coach Jeremy Soul and under the Love Systems Corporation. Part I: Umm, you wanna be a Pick Up Artist? Part II: Playing THE Game by Challenging Darwin’s [...]

By: Björn

Björn — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 05:13:00 +0000

Well Ive basically just noticed this blog and about to comment for my third time in one night woohoo! =P I have to say I will definitly follow your blog and thats a real compliment because I never liked blogging before, but your style is just awesome and I find myself almost addicted=D. Anyway this pickup artist thing is only about one thing. to get laid, and I beleive its strictly cultural aswell. For example american women (as far as I know) dont pick up guys, they wait for guys to pick them up. This alone makes this “game” a whole lot easier because then a woman doest have the same options in potential partners as man would. Its simply show some interesst in a approptiate way and then you get laid. I can safely say that in other cultures as for example my own (swedish) there is no game as such. Women can freely pickup guys as they please and if they feel like having a one night stand. All you really need to do is get out on the dance floor and dont be completely hopeless as far as rythm goes and your basically set, no dating involved. Just a one night stand. And no one will think there is anything wrong with that.

I dare say thats why dating sites have been become such a huge hit lately. 10 years ago its was considered nerdy to find a girlfriend/boyfriend online but now atleast in sweden its widely accepted. I think the main thing about is that you learn the know the person before you see them for real instead of the other way around. With soceity as it is now its not that strange for people to have an easier time meeting others online since everyone focus too much on how they look and as a result they cant relax and be themselves when meeting new people. With that said, this game book will most likely if not already be obsolete in my opinion. What was lies and deception yesterday is honestly and faithfulnes today. Atleast Id like to beleive and hope that for some people that is true=)

In either case this book alone makes me think that people concentrate too much on the dating itself instead of the person they are dating. And if thats true then no wonder so many singles are constantly dating and looking for their soulmate=P

By: Julie

Julie — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 23:08:03 +0000

Thanks Sapphire…much easier to read now :-) Incidentally, I thought the background you had when I first started reading a couple of months ago was really nice.
Cheers
Julie

By: Sapphire

Sapphire — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 08:04:05 +0000

Thanks Tony!

TR and Mircea, points taken, that’s why I’m going to check it out for myself (as a girl). It may be a marketing thing, but let’s face it, most men suck at talking to girls. It’s either because they’re jerks (and say stupid shit like “hey baby”) or they are too shy/nervous to talk.

Let’s see, the workshop is in three days!

By: Mircea

Mircea — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 20:06:51 +0000

The ‘PUA’ is just a marketing gimmick invented for shy people who dream with their eyes open. :x

By: TR

TR — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 03:20:35 +0000

A guy I used to work with was totally into this nonsense. Some guy tried this on me in a bar, too, and I played along like I didn’t know any better. It is all totally rediculous. Guys, just be yourselves. No tricks or gimmicks. Just be yourselves.

By: Tony

Tony — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 00:05:49 +0000

I love this. Investigating Jane Goodall style is definitely the way to go. Just be careful when your research subjects start practicing on you…

By: Sapphire

Sapphire — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 22:41:42 +0000

Julie, thanks! I’ve been noticing unusually long load times and well, don’t feel like fixing it.

I’ve switched back to white and will load a lighter color, decorated background later…when i find one… that i like…

By: Julie

Julie — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 22:30:54 +0000

Love your blog normally, but HATE HATE HATE the new style graphics. It takes forever to load and is totally impossible to read for ages til it does so……please switch back!