Comments on: Meet a Beautiful Blonde Swedish Girl? Dating Swedish Women isn’t Easy

By: lh

lh — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 19:59:56 +0000

Z, I completely agree with you!

By: Roger

Roger — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 14:32:18 +0000

Talking to a friend of mine recently who lived in Sweden. He said sex is easy to find, but love is not.
Apparently if you meet a women in a bar, if the conversation is going well after a few drinks, it’s perfectly fine to say ‘you’re cute, let’s go back to my place.’ I’m told they prefer that instead of, “let me get your number, or let’s have dinner sometime.” I wouldn’t be that up front with an American women due to the inherent “I’m not a slut” mechanism developed from our Puritan ancestors. But with a Swedish woman, should I be that forward? I’m going out with a Swede tomorrow, who’s visiting the states for a few months, and I’m simply looking for something casual.

By: Z

Fri, 03 Feb 2012 00:46:00 +0000

I feel like the list you made of what Swedish girls want/like men to do is what an real man is supposed to do when going after or courting any girl from anywhere lol. Especially on the first few dates you have to have a good personality, show some chivalry, and be willing to pay the bill and not be a cheap ass. Idk that may be just me, but I’m from the States and I’ve traveled the world and all that holds true anywhere. I just find it funny that any dude would think that that list is ridiculous or think, “damn, how do Swedish men and women mate and have lots of babies?” like you stated because uhh its kinda obvious that you have to do such things, and be able to hold a conversation, not be a pushover, have some courage etc etc. if you want to get anywhere with any girl. Idk Is it me or is that not just common sense when it comes to trying to get a girl or even simply trying to make friends?

By: Antonius

Antonius — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 20:28:58 +0000

Hi, im from sweden and actually i don’t drink to get wasted i only drink for the taste and such.
And yes i am very shy i just really dont know what to say its very enoying hehe.

Sorry for my english! :)

By: msy

msy — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 09:37:08 +0000

I’m off to stockholm next week. hopefully it lives up to my expectations. i dunno what it is but i’ve always found blond, blue eyed/green eyed women attractive.

By: Ramunas

Ramunas — Sun, 29 Jan 2012 19:27:40 +0000

It’s a bit funny.
Coz my girlfriend is learning Swedish language and thinking move out from our country to Sweden. Thanks god I’m freemind about the swedish guys. :) starting worried about girls out there

By: mikaela

mikaela — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 16:45:11 +0000

Haha I found this post so amusing!! Lots of what is written is true about Swedish men and Swedish women. I’m a Swedish girl but I grew up in California, New York, and the UK so everyone says I’m a little different than the full-blown Swedish woman. Whenever I visit though, I always find it refreshing. For example, Swedish men don’t seem to be as crude and cocky as lots of Americans (no offense!) – living in New York for 4 years, I got sick of men whistling and saying things like ‘Hey baby, you want some of this?”… no, I don’t.
Luckily though, I have found a nice balance. I have my wonderful Swedish boyfriend from Uppsala and he’s so sweet. I think Swedish boys are like eggs – best analogy I could come up with. They have a hard shell exterior, but when you finally crack it, all the gooey lovey stuff comes out :) and I like that about Swedes.

By: Scee

Scee — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 21:21:03 +0000

My Swede is nothing like what this article describes Swedish men to be…maybe because he is in the USA now with a woman who appreciates and loves him with all my heart? Perhaps Swedish girls are so spoiled they don’t deserve their sweet, shy, wonderful men… :-) S’ok with me, he’s mine! lol

By: northnexus

northnexus — Sat, 07 Jan 2012 22:27:59 +0000

@misterx–You’ve got it. Filipinas are the best! I’m man from the Philippines.

Go to the Philippines, and be greeted with smiles, love and kindness!

But I’m in Norway this time..lol

But seriously, Filipinas are good looking, flexible and family oriented.

And one more thing, I would like to ask, are Swedish women(in some particular) change

its trait, and adopt for more stable relationship in life? And be flexible enough for the

sake of family and children?

By: misterx

misterx — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 01:51:21 +0000

Interesting article and i can find lot of similarity with Ireland where i live.
I dont like generalisation though but i can see what you mean by that general way and i quite agree. You should copy and paste and post an article about ireland haha
As a French dude i never really knew what all peeps had with those swedish women thingy they not better than any other european women. i think some dudes dream about that blonde cliche which is totally untrue if you go there. Swedish are nice and gentle but nothing beats the kindness and good looks of Filipinas.