Comments on: Meet a Beautiful Blonde Swedish Girl? Dating Swedish Women isn’t Easy http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/ Musings about Life in Socialist Sweden - Oh Yea, It's Awesome Mon, 21 May 2012 20:16:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Steven Parker http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-151005 Steven Parker Mon, 14 May 2012 08:54:40 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-151005 For posting the picture with the "oh so cute" subtitle about my countrywomen looking ugly, erm, there are bad looking Swedish women as well you know. And why pick on us? I doubt you composed the picture, but it comes across as a bit racist. For posting the picture with the “oh so cute” subtitle about my countrywomen looking ugly, erm, there are bad looking Swedish women as well you know. And why pick on us? I doubt you composed the picture, but it comes across as a bit racist.

]]> By: lh http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-148688 lh Sat, 05 May 2012 05:35:53 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-148688 I used to think that this coldness/reservedness was characteristic of "Scandinavia" in general, but I met a few Norwegian girls this summer who were super fun, outgoing, and warm towards their boyfriends. So maybe try Norway? Has anyone else noticed this difference? (or it might just be these particular Norwegians I met, after all, they were in an exchange program in the US, so that by itself may speak of their personalities). I used to think that this coldness/reservedness was characteristic of “Scandinavia” in general, but I met a few Norwegian girls this summer who were super fun, outgoing, and warm towards their boyfriends. So maybe try Norway?
Has anyone else noticed this difference? (or it might just be these particular Norwegians I met, after all, they were in an exchange program in the US, so that by itself may speak of their personalities).

]]> By: Kris http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-148150 Kris Thu, 03 May 2012 09:13:25 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-148150 P.S a couple times i really thought about packing up and leaving, but in my mind its still a challenge and i should tough it out to see a better side of the relationship ..or just have a better person hit me in the future and go with the flow.. Success should be synonymous with sacrifice.. but what if you sacrifice too much time and you lose the critical period to get the person you thinks flawless and create something amazing .. something like a family of your own.. Just from someone who is pondering success and how far to go to have both positives in work ..and in a relationship. ..If im wrong, i'd really like to hear your opinions. P.S a couple times i really thought about packing up and leaving, but in my mind its still a challenge and i should tough it out to see a better side of the relationship ..or just have a better person hit me in the future and go with the flow.. Success should be synonymous with sacrifice.. but what if you sacrifice too much time and you lose the critical period to get the person you thinks flawless and create something amazing .. something like a family of your own..

Just from someone who is pondering success and how far to go to have both positives in work ..and in a relationship.

..If im wrong, i’d really like to hear your opinions.

]]> By: Kris http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-148149 Kris Thu, 03 May 2012 09:08:57 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-148149 Hey!, Sweden is a pretty beautiful country in terms of Site Seeing.. from one angle i guess >-< I've been living here almost 2 years now with a Swedish woman. I moved to Örnsköldsvik, Sweden from Trinidad & Tobago with the hopes of stabilizing myself in both Engineering work and in a relationship .. From the drop point of view, the Swedish women ive met here are shy to start conversations and generally let the men do most everything from work to playing with the kids. My woman hardly has any conversation with me unless i initiate it and it deathly afraid to try anything new. Passive is what comes to mind.. The women i know here over 26 + years find their guys mostly on dating websites and the statistic was that most failed at that particular date found on the internet (Swedish date). So far i've felt like the relationship really lacks feeling and affection as get more hugs and kisses from my Mother when i visit her in the Caribbean than from my Swedish Girlfriend and the other women i know here (when those women are with their guys, the guys always initiate the affection and complain about lack of motivation to push further). I've seen girls from the age of 16+ having kids and dropping the father so they can be on their own, It really crossed me that the women here enjoy being single parents. You gotta live here to realize it. its either that or the guys are all douche-bags. I really think the Engineering work environment here is satisfying, so many things to work with and learn from and top class education =D .. I achieved my dream of becoming a Hydraulic Engineer in Europe ..and i did it before i got to 25 years of age =P .. But relationship wise .. i really think its harder to have one with a Swedish woman.. than with one from a foreigners native country or otherwise. .. Unless you just want sex ;) Hey!, Sweden is a pretty beautiful country in terms of Site Seeing.. from one angle i guess >-<
I've been living here almost 2 years now with a Swedish woman. I moved to Örnsköldsvik, Sweden from Trinidad & Tobago with the hopes of stabilizing myself in both Engineering work and in a relationship ..
From the drop point of view, the Swedish women ive met here are shy to start conversations and generally let the men do most everything from work to playing with the kids. My woman hardly has any conversation with me unless i initiate it and it deathly afraid to try anything new. Passive is what comes to mind.. The women i know here over 26 + years find their guys mostly on dating websites and the statistic was that most failed at that particular date found on the internet (Swedish date). So far i've felt like the relationship really lacks feeling and affection as get more hugs and kisses from my Mother when i visit her in the Caribbean than from my Swedish Girlfriend and the other women i know here (when those women are with their guys, the guys always initiate the affection and complain about lack of motivation to push further).
I've seen girls from the age of 16+ having kids and dropping the father so they can be on their own, It really crossed me that the women here enjoy being single parents. You gotta live here to realize it. its either that or the guys are all douche-bags.
I really think the Engineering work environment here is satisfying, so many things to work with and learn from and top class education =D ..

I achieved my dream of becoming a Hydraulic Engineer in Europe ..and i did it before i got to 25 years of age =P .. But relationship wise .. i really think its harder to have one with a Swedish woman.. than with one from a foreigners native country or otherwise. .. Unless you just want sex ;)

]]> By: Dean http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-146016 Dean Wed, 25 Apr 2012 07:46:25 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-146016 i don't see them as sluts one bit. i have met a few and there great!! in which are like most women or ladys out there.however you talk about how much balls a man has?? in my opinion ...i see how far will i take it?...... do i want to go to jail or go home? insted of hurting people and myself i choose a more "civil" idea. in which is not harming others or myself. im "american" im shy .... givin the situation. maybe ya should give the swedish men more credit. you and others have no idea whats going through there head.maybe that man wishes to respect you in matters of maybe crossing bondries.... who wants to do that on top of who wants to put themselves in a situation they may potentualy not want to be in.. anyhow i see your point and it makes sense to me. i wish the best for you and others!! keep looking its right around he corner. i don’t see them as sluts one bit. i have met a few and there great!! in which are like most women or ladys out there.however you talk about how much balls a man has?? in my opinion …i see how far will i take it?…… do i want to go to jail or go home? insted of hurting people and myself i choose a more “civil” idea. in which is not harming others or myself.
im “american” im shy …. givin the situation. maybe ya should give the swedish men more credit. you and others have no idea whats going through there head.maybe that man wishes to respect you in matters of maybe crossing bondries…. who wants to do that on top of who wants to put themselves in a situation they may potentualy not want to be in.. anyhow i see your point and it makes sense to me. i wish the best for you and others!! keep looking its right around he corner.

]]> By: Yan http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-134332 Yan Wed, 14 Mar 2012 17:16:27 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-134332 I thought that by having the option to post comments, people were allowed to comment. LOL Opinions differ and of course that will have people who will not like some. But what is the problem of finding the swedes more beautiful than american ones? I find romanian women beautiful, and by far more pleasant that swedish and american. Problem? Taste is particular, each has its own. And it certainly does not mean that I think all the american and swedish women are ugly, or autocrats and self-serving. The problem with people who take themselves too seriously is that they end up offended for any little thing. I thought that by having the option to post comments, people were allowed to comment. LOL

Opinions differ and of course that will have people who will not like some. But what is the problem of finding the swedes more beautiful than american ones? I find romanian women beautiful, and by far more pleasant that swedish and american. Problem? Taste is particular, each has its own. And it certainly does not mean that I think all the american and swedish women are ugly, or autocrats and self-serving. The problem with people who take themselves too seriously is that they end up offended for any little thing.

]]> By: lh http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-134140 lh Wed, 14 Mar 2012 00:59:53 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-134140 HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA I cant stop laughing, this is so good (and a great break from cell bio, i must add) anyway, yeahhhh how dare you, sapphire, express your opinions in the internet!!! all opinions should be censored! XD anyway, jokes aside, rawr, chill, let us have some fun with stereotypes :P we can call this blog an outsider's ethnographic exploration of Swedish culture... or something of the sort :) HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA I cant stop laughing, this is so good (and a great break from cell bio, i must add) anyway, yeahhhh how dare you, sapphire, express your opinions in the internet!!! all opinions should be censored! XD

anyway, jokes aside, rawr, chill, let us have some fun with stereotypes :P
we can call this blog an outsider’s ethnographic exploration of Swedish culture… or something of the sort :)

]]> By: Sapphire http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-133947 Sapphire Tue, 13 Mar 2012 11:11:12 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-133947 @rawr - I didn't realize there was a law against a US-indian person writing about Swedish women. Did I miss something? @rawr – I didn’t realize there was a law against a US-indian person writing about Swedish women. Did I miss something?

]]> By: rawr http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-133902 rawr Tue, 13 Mar 2012 07:02:38 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-133902 Every comment here is a generalisation or just uses one to back up their argueement. "American girls are strong and diverse", "Swedish girls are beautiful", "Swedish girls like this and that". Rididiculous! Like every culture, individuals are individuals. There are attractive and unattractive girls in every country: both in looks and personality. Some US women are diverse, some are not. Some Swedish girls enjoy paying for the bill, others do not -- like anyone! The amount of people here who have dated or spoken to a pretty Swedish girl and fallen in love with her, then commented here that all Swedish girls are more beautiful than American, or Australian, or any others, is plain stupid. Grow some brains as well as some balls people. What the issue at hand should be is -- how can a US-Indian girl write a post on what Swedish women like about Swedish men? And why are people so STUPID? Every comment here is a generalisation or just uses one to back up their argueement. “American girls are strong and diverse”, “Swedish girls are beautiful”, “Swedish girls like this and that”. Rididiculous!

Like every culture, individuals are individuals. There are attractive and unattractive girls in every country: both in looks and personality. Some US women are diverse, some are not. Some Swedish girls enjoy paying for the bill, others do not — like anyone!

The amount of people here who have dated or spoken to a pretty Swedish girl and fallen in love with her, then commented here that all Swedish girls are more beautiful than American, or Australian, or any others, is plain stupid. Grow some brains as well as some balls people.

What the issue at hand should be is — how can a US-Indian girl write a post on what Swedish women like about Swedish men? And why are people so STUPID?

]]> By: freetruth http://lostinstockholm.com/2009/08/21/want-to-meet-a-blond-girl-dating-swedish-women-aint-so-easy/#comment-132814 freetruth Fri, 09 Mar 2012 11:27:21 +0000 http://lostinstockholm.com/?p=705#comment-132814 Dated swedish women in the US. They have some type of inferiority complex: 'my culture is this and this' is their comments most of the time. They don't seem to know what they like beyond what their village likes. To the moronic commentator above, I love women in the US because many are strong and there is diversity of thought. I hope we don't go back to cavemen days. I understand the guys frustration, because independent women many times go for surprisingly superficial guys. But some do mend their ways. Others end up in the regret lane later in life... But that is not all women by any stretch. Dated swedish women in the US. They have some type of inferiority complex: ‘my culture is this and this’ is their comments most of the time. They don’t seem to know what they like beyond what their village likes. To the moronic commentator above, I love women in the US because many are strong and there is diversity of thought. I hope we don’t go back to cavemen days. I understand the guys frustration, because independent women many times go for surprisingly superficial guys. But some do mend their ways. Others end up in the regret lane later in life… But that is not all women by any stretch.

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